You are an important person just the way you are. You can make healthy decisions.
Meaning
Rogers said this while describing the message of his programme, in testimony in a US District Court case in 1979. He pairs self-worth with agency: you already matter, and you can choose well. Remind yourself of both parts before a hard decision, instead of waiting for approval.
Source: U.S. District Court testimony (1979)
About the author
Fred Rogers (1928–2003) was an American television host, writer and Presbyterian minister, best known as the creator and host of the children's series Mister Rogers' Neighborhood. He is remembered for his gentle, encouraging approach to children's emotional lives.
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